Hi there Ansa, I'm Ashley, I'm one of the Netmums Parent Supporters :hello: . You are coping with so much, Ansa - you have two young children, one with additional needs, and it doesn't sound like your husband is playing his part in family life :( .
. You've said he spends a lot of time in bed or on his phone; does he go to work at all? Do you work outside the house yourself?he loves you, but you don'tthat love. I'm wondering how well you think your husband understands that? Do you think he knows how unhappy you are? What do you feel when you look into the future, Ansa? Do you think it's possible that your husband will be able to change? If he doesn't, how would you feel if things were still the same in 6 months; or a year; or 3 years...? What do you feel you want for yourself and the kids in the future?Ashley is an experienced practitioner who has over ten years' experience in the voluntary sector, including working with Barnardo's and Mind.