My husband and I have been married for over 20 years. We’re in our late 50s and have two grown-up children. Everything looks perfect from the outside, but we haven’t had sex in over 15 years.
However, after that our sex life just sort of stopped. I was so busy back then bringing up our children that the fact we never had sex was rarely an issue. He’s always been a great husband, and he’s very handy around the house. She said her and her husband have sex a few times a month still, whereas even at the beginning of our marriage my husband and I only ever had sex once every six months, if that.
He sounds like a great man and he clearly loves you to bits. But there is clearly something medical or emotional going on, and the good news is there is so much help out there.